Decked out in our finest outfits, last weekend my husband and I hit the town for a night out at a friend’s wedding. It was the first time since having the baby that we both put some effort into our appearance and were ready to eat, draaaank and dance. Unfortunately, minutes after completing the main... Continue Reading →
HERE’S WHAT I REALLY WANT FOR MOTHER’S DAY
Twelve days after having our second child it was my birthday so my husband bought me a spa package that included a massage, manicure and pedicure. The one, most important, thing it lacked was instructions from him on when I could use it. Now, three months later, he has never mentioned the gift nor given... Continue Reading →
IF IT TAKES A VILLAGE, LET’S NOT DO IT ALONE
I just spent a month with my parents following the birth of my second child. After a not so pleasant experience with baby #1 I decided to take my mother up on her initial offer of caring for me full time while I recovered from the delivery and nine months of hellish pregnancy. It was... Continue Reading →
MY TOP 5 ARTICLES ON WHAT MOTHERHOOD REALLY LOOKS LIKE
I'm about to become a mother for the second time and people keep asking me if I'm excited. In truth, I'm more nervous than anything. During my first pregnancy I was living in ignorant bliss, joyfully browsing through Amazon for unnecessary crib bedding until finally the baby came and post natal realities shot down every... Continue Reading →
I QUIT MY JOB A YEAR AGO AND HERE’S WHAT HAPPENED
I contemplated it for years, spending day after day walking from the train station to the office thinking about different ways to satisfy the vocational hole being burned into my soul until finally I took a leap of faith and hit send on my resignation letter. Almost instantly I felt a huge weight being lifted... Continue Reading →
HEY YOU WITH THE BEER IN YOUR HAND!
Offer it to your wife and make yourself useful. Last week I was having dinner at my in-laws when I noticed my sister-in-law refrain from asking my husband, her brother, for help in the kitchen because he was busy sipping on a beer and relaxing on the couch with the other gents. After getting over... Continue Reading →
FRIEND OR FOE? BECOMING A MOM WILL TELL
Becoming a parent is an extremely insightful experience. Beyond teaching you about yourself and your partner, it teaches you a lot about those around you. Relationships you've had for years that have been a large part of who you are can be tested once your life includes a whole new being, one who means more... Continue Reading →
HOW BECOMING A MOTHER TRAUMATIZED ME
It's true. I admit it. Every time the Huggies "power of hugs" commercial hits the screen I cover my face with my knees so my husband doesn't see me 😭. It’s not that I’m ashamed about displaying emotion, rather I'm afraid he might ask me why I'm crying and the question would force me to face the... Continue Reading →
SO WHEN’S THE NEXT ONE COMING?
It's a question most first time or, one time mothers will get. As soon as your first born starts to talk people begin asking when you'll push out another one. To be honest, the question doesn't really bother me. I'm not a stickler for privacy, especially since I myself haven't fully grasped the concept of boundaries... Continue Reading →
THE DEMOCRATIZATION OF CREATION
Saturday I spent the day learning to code at a free workshop hosted by Lighthouse Labs. I didn't do it because I want to become a programmer or build my own website from scratch (I have WordPress for that). I participated because after a long stint of sitting in an office under fluorescent lighting, wearing black polyester pants and answering... Continue Reading →