A cousin of mine recently expressed the fact that she felt rejected after sensing that she was approached by a guy only as second choice to her sister. Her feelings prompted me to recount what I had experienced growing up with my own sister over the course of twenty some odd years. We weren’t best friends, not... Continue Reading →
TIME TO SELF-SPRING CLEAN
The sun is shining, the weather is warming, the flip flops are out in full swing but, you, you look in the mirror and realize that your hair is three inches longer than it needs to be, you’re dressed in the drabby black and grey theme that has sustained you through the cold winter months... Continue Reading →
WANT A HEALTHY MARRIAGE? CONSIDER THIS
I have a theory on what makes marriage and parenting successful. It’s not rooted in science but rather experience and anecdotal evidence. If you ask me, there are two important factors: Common interests and Respect for each other’s individuality What does the above equate to? Balance. Common interests allow you to enjoy life together in... Continue Reading →
WHY I LIVE IN REGRET OF WHAT I CAN CHANGE
I've attended two funerals in only a one week span and although both deaths were the result of old age that doesn't make it any less emotional for the families involved. It's unfortunate how sometimes we need tragedy to jolt us into remembering what's important. Most of us seem to be on autopilot, rushing through... Continue Reading →
DON’T MESS WITH ME MAMA!
It's the 22 month mark. Just when you think you have it all under control, that you've mastered dinner time, bed time, quality time and spousal time - you're faced with a so called sleep regression. In my case what this means is baby girl's 8PM bed time has now been pushed to 9. An... Continue Reading →
SO YOU WANT TO BE A HUMANITARIAN
Why not start by being human? There's no doubt that the world has been experiencing too many heartbreaks with tragedies like mass shootings, civil wars and disease epidemics. Amid the illogical POVs by some on issues like gun control or immigration it's nice to see many others sharing open minded perspectives and the desire to... Continue Reading →
MOMMY IMAGE MALAISE
I remember it vividly. Two weeks after giving birth I visited my in laws where my father in law looked at me, smiled and said "finally out of your sweat pants eh?”. I didn't take it personally (little did he know they were safely tucked away in my diaper bag), but it did make me question whether... Continue Reading →
I AM WOMAN 25-54
In the world of marketing, virtually every company out there is dissecting me according to my interests, attitude and behaviour in an effort to connect with me and secure me as an end consumer. The problem is I’m sick and tired of being chased after like a dog with a bone. The monumental growth of digital advertising has... Continue Reading →
IN MAN COLD AND IN HEALTH…I DO?
It's four o'clock on a Friday. I'm at work in my skinny jeans and pumps ready to meet the girls for a well-deserved and much-needed cinq à sept when I get the dreaded phone call... "Babe, I'm shivering and my head hurts," he says. No shit, it's like minus two degrees and you spent the... Continue Reading →
ARE YOU A FOREIGNER IN YOUR OWN CITY?
I am. Over the last couple of years I have come in contact with more than a few Europeans living in Montreal and the one thing they've all made me realize is how much I take the city not to mention the province and country I live in for granted. Like most things that become a comfortable... Continue Reading →